The Modern Mr. and Mrs.
Learn From Your Past
Acknowledge Your Present
Change Your Future
Relationship & Recovery Coaching
Hey, I am Savannah and I help struggling couples achieve connected, intimate, and happy relationships by using my background in psychology, education, and experience to get couples from disconnection to connection through action-oriented strategies!
My husband and I got married and soon after, I gave birth to our son. They say the first year of marriage is hardest, and they also say the first year of having a child is hardest. We accomplished the two hardest years of marriage in one year and lived to tell the tale! That doesn’t include all of the other things that were going on as well, but what I did was use my knowledge and skills to get us through the roughest times!
If you want insight into how to have a successful relationship, check out my free “Relationship Guide 101” that will teach you exactly what you need to have a successful relationship and marriage!
Ready To Take Action!
Schedule a FREE Strategy Call with me if you’re ready to change not only your relationship, but your life!
If you’re struggling with aspects of trust, communication, and sexual intimacy our Relationship Evolution program is perfect for you!
If you’re struggling with porn addiction and betrayal trauma we have a lot of amazing services for you!
Hey there! If your relationship is struggling, then you are in the right place, my friend! The Modern Mr. and Mrs. LLC is here to help you get the relationship you desire! I have been in many relationships -some good, some bad- and I am now married with a little one! I was like you, trying to find the right relationship, or hell, improve the one I was in!
You’re probably thinking, “This is the relationship I want, but it’s just not working right now!” I totally relate to that. My husband hid his porn addiction from me, and when I found out, I was thinking, “What the fuck?! This IS NOT what I signed up for!” Maybe your partner doesn’t have an addiction, but maybe they spend too much money or work too much, or they might just not want sex that often and it drives you up the wall.
Let me tell you, there is hope! You can have the relationship you desire! It just … takes two to tango, so to speak! And you know what the best time is to improve your relationship?
Not later, when you’ve been unhappy for years on end thinking, “When will they change? When will I be important to them? Won’t they just listen?”
There are TWO of you in this relationship, meaning you BOTH have to want this to work. You both have to agree, “Yes, our communication sucks, let’s fix this together!”
You can try all you want to fix your relationship alone, but it won’t work (trust me, I tried this!). You have to get your partner on board.
Maybe you or your partner are skeptical, I mean, there is a lot out there about helping relationships and you might get dragged down in all the information that you never take action.
On A Positive Note
You can do this! You can achieve the relationship you want. It does take work as anything would, but it’s worth it!
But how do you do this? Well, you learn. You literally need to learn relationship skills (which are also life skills if you think about it). But no one teaches these essential skills that can make your relationship thrive. Did you learn in school? No. Did you learn from your friends? No. Did you learn from your parents? Maybe.
Good News, You’re in the Right Place!
That’s right, I am here to help you get your relationship back on track! Need help with communicating? I got you! Need help with creating and keeping intimacy? I got you! Need help with improving your sex life? Oh hell yeah, I got you! And how do I do this? From experience.
I have been where you are – unhappy, not connected, feeling alone, unheard and unimportant. But it does not have to be that way!
What’s The Catch?
The catch is, you and your partner both have to commit to this, and that means moving beyond fear, shame, and embarrassment. There is nothing wrong with you or your partner. It’s simply that you two are different people with different backgrounds trying to combine two lives and create one. That takes skill! And if you’ve never learned relationship skills, then it’s harder.
Aside from getting past shame, embarrassment or fear… you also have to be honest. Without honesty, this won’t work. You’re going to have to acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses. You have to be ready to say, “Hey, I need help and that’s okay.”
Stop feeling alone and lost. I am here to guide the way to
“Before entering Savannah’s program, I was feeling scared, but somewhat hopeful but unsure about how the program could help us. When we graduated the program, I felt confident that we had the tools, skills, and resources to work on our relationship and overcome obstacles as they come up; I also feel way more emotionally “open” with James. The biggest impact the program had was working on trust and open communication in the moment, especially with regards to arguing (or, preventing arguments) and learning how to argue effectively.
I found the most value came from the 60-minute sessions and the homework was extremely beneficial. Honestly, the entire program was super intentional and beneficial. Our relationship has changed with having fewer arguments, we feel more emotionally open/connected and have more one-on-one time that is more intentional and balanced (i.e. we go out AND stay in). Savannah is extremely compassionate and knowledgeable and validating. Her program is clear cut and straight forward while also being challenging and validating to our individual needs (as well as our needs as a couple).
If you have tried other types of help and are thinking about joining Savannah’s program, DO IT! Seriously, I couldn’t recommend Savannah and her program enough. Having a third-party who is objective while also being empathetic and validating is a RARE find in a coach of ANY sort. Savannah is someone who is very intuitive and patient. She treats you both as individuals while also teaching you how to be an actual team as a couple. I am SO grateful for Savannah and her program. My relationship with James is one of the most important relationships I have ever had. Before her program I was honestly doubting our abilities to live together and to make it through as a team. Savannah’s help honestly saved us, and I am confident we will be together for many more years to come!”
“In the Relationship Ready Program, I entered feeling really frustrated with dating. Leaving this program I’ve felt optimistic going forward! This programs made me feel more confident in the dating world. I loved established accountability. I was able to ask someone out, joined dating apps, and overall feel more confident. I love that Savannah explains the science and research to back her methods.”
“I have a background of being the victim of sexual abuse, and a history of pornography, masturbation, and orgasm that spans decades. I have been in therapy, sexual addiction treatment facilities, and many 12-Step Programs. Savannah Esposito is one of the most thoroughly knowledgeable SME (Subject Matter Experts) I have ever had the privilege to know. Her advice and words of wisdom is unsurpassed and unparalleled. I would highly recommend her as your relationship coach.”
“This course helped me gain a fresh new look on relationships. It truly resonated with me and not only helped within my relationship but helped me identify things internally I didn’t realize were happening!! You can’t put a price on the realizations and perspective you gain! I 100% recommend!”
“Working with Savannah at The Modern Mr. and Mrs. was a very enjoyable experience and her communication the entire time was great. Everything we worked on together moved quickly because of how helpful she was and I’d highly recommend her website and services to all that are lucky enough to come across them.”
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“My husband and I took this course together, and we loved how much closer it made us! We were able to understand each other’s behaviors and perspectives more than we ever have before, and we had some amazing conversations. In addiction, I work as a counselor and case manager. I use information from this course to help my clients improve their relationships. Such an amazing experience, one I recommend to everyone no matter where you are in life.”