“Become a Knight” LIVE Group Coaching Program
If you are stuck in Pornography addiction this program is for you!
Being a masturbation, pornography, or sex addict is one of the biggest challenges one can go through. As an addict, you have lost your sense of self, your self-esteem, your sense of reality, self-worth, and your ability to trust yourself. You have not only lost all that but you’ve lost self-love, self-respect, and even potentially your money on your addiction.
My husband’s been there. He was once an active addict, lost, ashamed, and constantly self-loathing. He became a knight in his own journey in recovery when he joined a group of other addicts and they named themselves “The Knights™” for their bravery, courage, strength, and chivalry to not only fight this addiction to the death, but to stay and fight for their marriages, and face the pain they caused their partners, and choose healing and moving forward.
In this Live Group Coaching Program, you will find that you’re not alone. You will receive the knowledge, validation, support, and skills you need to move from being an active addict to a chivalrous knight in your life. At The Mod, you have a safe haven where you can start your journey of recovery and graduate from this program as a Knight.
You will finally be able to understand what is happening and HOW to move forward!
Major Benefits of being in become a Knight group Coaching program!
With addiction comes secrecy and deception of yourself and those around you. One of the reasons addicts are plagued with relapse over relapse is that they don’t have any form or sense of accountability.
In Group coaching you gain accountability strategies from each other, you gain accountability by showing up and being honest and participating, and you gain accountability through making genuine connections.
Going from Isolation to community
When you’re suffering from addiction, one of the side affects is isolation. You get more consumed by your addiction and let other area’s of your life slip, like friends, romance, family, career, and more.
When you get into group coaching you are around people who are in the trenches just like you. You are not alone anymore and you realize you’re not crazy, sick, or perverted because you’re not the only one going through this.
In group coaching you build genuine connection and friendships and can gain the peer support you need to keep your motivation going and keep you accountable to your goals.
Knowledge & Skills
In group coaching you not only get the knowledge and skills of the expert who has been through it, but you get the insights from your group peers. You get to see what does and does not work. You get to try different methods to figure out what works for you in your recovery. You don’t have to waste weeks of relapsing with failed methods. You get the tried and true strategies to beat the addiction.
You get to build upon each other’s knowledge, recommend good books, recommend good recovery tools, you get to gain empathy through seeing your peers journey.
As they say, “two heads are better than one,” and when you have a group of many people who are actively engaged in recovery efforts you’re going to get a lot of knowledge from them and gain the skills and techniques that you need to navigate your personal recovery successfully.
Here is what you can expect from our Live Become A Knight Group Coaching Program:
Becoming a Knight isn’t going to be sitting back and learning. This program is active and engaging and hands on. There are 6 distinct parts of the program outside of the application. You will learn about concepts and will be getting intuitive exercises to do alone and with your partner when ready.
By the end of the 10 weeks together, your biggest takeaways will be:
Understanding Pornography/Sex addiction as well as betrayal trauma
Being able to understand your partner’s boundaries and consequences
Having accountability in your life and gaining meaningful connections in your life
Understand the KEY factor that will help reconstruct your relationship/marriage when ready
Know the go-to coping skills if/when you feel tempted to use
Having a self-care plan and hobbies in place for difficult moments in recovery
Building a War Chest to battle this war against addiction
Building a Support Network
How does the program work?
As soon as you are enrolled in the program, you will receive a welcome packet to help get the best results from the program and fully prepare you for the upcoming weeks.
FOR THE NEXT 10 weeks, YOU WILL RECEIVE:
Weekly Group Coaching sessions where you and others will receive group coaching with Savannah Esposito, Timothy Brown, and Chloe Sutherland, where we will address the various challenges and progress for that week. This is one of the most dynamic parts of the program where you get our undivided attention to help you guys move forward and overcome any obstacles. (Total of 10 Group Sessions)
Each person gets an individual session where you will have 1:1 coaching with Savannah Esposito, Timothy Brown, or Chloe Sutherland and address any personal obstacles that are occurring or discuss any issues you are nervous about addressing with your partner so we can figure out a way to bring that issue up. (Each Person Has 1 Individual Session)
Optional Support Partner (which we highly encourage!). In the group, if you find you are clicking with another member in the group, we encourage you to reach out and become each other’s support partner. This is one of the most magical aspects of the program, where you can truly create a bond with another addict in the trenches and get extra support and even friendship in this time of need.
Access to our Private Slack Channel, of people who are in the program where you can get support from others, share tips, get questions answered and get advice. Plus, even more help from Savannah, Tim, or Chloe by posting your question and tagging any/all of us so we will answer your question directly.
BONUS GAS-LIGHTING MODULE!
When you sign up you get the bonus module on gaslighting that we give each week at the end of the main module! Each week we go over the 10 ways gas-lighting occurs!
BONUS INDIVIDUAL SESSION!
When you sign up by January 13th, you will get a bonus individual session, so you will have a total of 2 Individual Sessions!
You have a total of up to 11 Sessions (12 with early sign up) and extra support!
Here Is Just A Snippet Of What You’ll Get When You Join!
,MODULE 1: Addiction & Betrayal Trauma Education
1. Learning about addiction is one of the most important aspects of being able to put your reality back together. Once we teach you about addiction, you will begin to understand, predict, and even understand your dysfunctional behavior in an effective and healthy way so that you can change the addiction cycle. (Week 1)
2. Learning about Betrayal Trauma is also essential to recovery. When you learn what is happening, you will be able to understand your partner’s reactions, start building the skills of compassion, patience, and empathy towards your partner. (Week 2)
MODULE 2: Boundaries, Rules, & Consequences
1. This is one of the MOST important aspects of recovery that SO MANY get wrong. This is why you’re stuck on repeat, and when you master this, you will see a shift in your relationship. (Week 3)
2. You will be learning about what B&C are, why they are important, and what B&C are not. You will also be working towards respecting the B&C’s that your partner sets up. (Week 4)
MODULE 3: Accountability
You’re out of control when you’re in your addiction, and part of recovery is getting accountable. You are responsible for your choices and actions, and in this module we go over all the different ways accountability can be incorporated into your life. You get to create your accountability plan so that you no longer have to fear the addiction taking over.
Part of accountability is checking in with your Support Partner, but also doing the Daily Worksheets we provide you in this program. (Week 5)
MODULE 4: Micro-Trust
Trust is an ESSENTIAL part of recovery. Trust has been absolutely shattered and thus, you need to learn how trust is actually rebuilt. Many approach rebuilding trust in the wrong ways, with good intentions.
In this module you will be learning exactly how trust is rebuilt and what to look for and ask for in this journey to see whether your partner is really ready to rebuild! (Week 6)
MODULE 5: Am I Enough
Addicts who have broken their partner’s hearts often are plagued with constant critical voices in their head, wondering if they’ll ever be enough for their partner.
You may wonder how you will ever repair the damage you’ve done, or wonder if your partner will ever forgive you and accept you. You feel as if you’ll never be enough for your partner with your history of addiction.
In this Module we work on rebuilding self-esteem and really working on accepting that you are NOT your addiction. (Week 7 & Week 8)
MODULE 6: Self Care & Coping Skills
1. Now that you’re educated, getting stable, and developing strong friendships, we are going to be working on incorporating some amazing coping skills into your life before graduating this program! (Week 9)
2. After working on coping skills, we are going to be creating individualized Self-Care Plans for the rest of your recovery journey. These are not set in stone and can evolve as you evolve in recovery. This is one of the most important parts of the program as if you have coping skills and self-care in place you will be 100 times better off! (Week 10)
Congratulations! You’ve Graduated!
After finishing the program, you will have graduated from being an active addict to being a Knight! You will be getting some amazing graduation gifts sent your way as a sign of the amazing progress and transformation you’ve made!
Now, you’re probably wondering what the cost of The “Become a Knight” Live Group Coaching Program is…
Honestly, I want you to see this not as a cost, as cost implies a loss of something. I want you to look at this as an investment in yourself, as with investments you gain something, and in this program you will be gaining SO MUCH it’s unbelievable.
When you enter this program and graduate, you will have gained so much knowledge, and that alone will be a huge change! You also will be gaining life-long friendships! That’s right, you’re no longer alone in this hell. You have others who are there with you, growing, healing, and they will be your supporters and friends in this journey.
One of the amazing things you’ll gain is a sense of self-worth and knowing that you are so much more than you’re addiction. You will be able look at yourself in the mirror and not feel disgusted and ashamed, you’ll know your worth!
So, tell me, truly how much is that worth to you? If You Ask Me, It’s PRICELESS!
This program is only $997 and honestly it’s a steal. What you will learn and gain in this program is insurmountable and will change your life. I also know that not everyone has $997 to just drop at once, and that is why I offer payment plans to make this investment easier. So, if you need the payment plan option, it’s there! You can join today with just a payment of $397 with two following monthly payments of $397.
Our program is a game changer. You are not going to be stuck anymore, you will have personal power again, and be able to hold your ground with friends to stand by you. That’s pretty damn amazing if you ask me.
Ready to Enroll or Have questions?
These are the most common questions people ask
How Can I Justify The Cost of the Program? What About Help For My Partner?
This program will change you life. Rather than repeating the same old patterns and being in a horrible relationship and state, you will be moving forward and will grow. Can you really afford to not invest? And as for your partner, we do have the Become A Warrior LIVE Group Coaching program for the betrayed as well, and as a special, we love it when both the betrayed and the addicted sign up for their individual programs together because it gives you guys just that much more of a chance of really making recovery stick, that we offer a couples special price of $1499. Now, again we do have payment plans for that option as well where you pay $550 to enroll with 2 monthly payments of $550. PLUS since you’ve committed to this as a couple, you get the BONUS Disclosure Workshop (a $700 value!) where you guys work with Tim, Chloe, and I on a proper disclosure.
If you and your partner want the Couples Special email firstname.lastname@example.org subject title “Couples Special” and I’ll send you guys the link to sign up that way!
We Have very busy schedules. My Partner’s job is demanding. How can we justify the Commitment?
I am going to be blunt, you cannot afford to waste anymore time NOT being in recovery. If you’re not in recovery, neither of you are healing and you’re staying stuck in a painful and unhealthy dynamic that will eventually end the relationship. If recovery and marriage are important to you, I assure you, you will find the time. It’s about what is truly your priority.
When can I sign up?
ENROLLMENT OPEN for next live round
Start Date: February 3rd
End Date: April 12th
Again, if you sign up by January 13th, you get the Individual session bonus with the coach of your preference!
How do I pay?
You pay through the Apply Now button, and it will bring you to the page to pay and fill out the application.
When I hit “Apply Now,” I see there is an application, why do you need that?
Our applications give us the information we need to best help you. The applications are confidential and only used to help us help you. This application also helps us prepare for your individual sessions in this program.