“Become a Knight” LIVE Group Coaching Program
If you are stuck in ssa this program is for you!
Being a masturbation, pornography, or sex addict is one of the biggest challenges one can go through. As an addict, you have lost your sense of self, your self-esteem, your sense of reality, self-worth, and your ability to trust yourself. You have not only lost all that but you’ve lost self-love, self-respect, and even potentially your money on your addiction.
My husband’s been there. He was once an active addict, lost, ashamed, and constantly self-loathing. He became a knight in his own journey in recovery when he joined a group of other addicts and they named themselves “The Knights™” for their bravery, courage, strength, and chivalry to not only fight this addiction to the death, but to stay and fight for their marriages, and face the pain they caused their partners, and choose healing and moving forward.
In this Live Group Coaching Program, you will find that you’re not alone. You will receive the knowledge, validation, support, and skills you need to move from being an active addict to a chivalrous knight in your life. At The Mod, you have a safe haven where you can start your journey of recovery and graduate from this program as a Knight.
You will finally be able to understand what is happening and HOW to move forward!
Major Benefits of being in become a Knight group Coaching program!
With addiction comes secrecy and deception of yourself and those around you. One of the reasons addicts are plagued with relapse over relapse is that they don’t have any form or sense of accountability.
In Group coaching you gain accountability strategies from each other, you gain accountability by showing up and being honest and participating, and you gain accountability through making genuine connections.
Going from Isolation to community
When you’re suffering from addiction, one of the side affects is isolation. You get more consumed by your addiction and let other area’s of your life slip, like friends, romance, family, career, and more.
When you get into group coaching you are around people who are in the trenches just like you. You are not alone anymore and you realize you’re not crazy, sick, or perverted because you’re not the only one going through this.
In group coaching you build genuine connection and friendships and can gain the peer support you need to keep your motivation going and keep you accountable to your goals.
Knowledge & Skills
In group coaching you not only get the knowledge and skills of the expert who has been through it, but you get the insights from your group peers. You get to see what does and does not work. You get to try different methods to figure out what works for you in your recovery. You don’t have to waste weeks of relapsing with failed methods. You get the tried and true strategies to beat the addiction.
You get to build upon each other’s knowledge, recommend good books, recommend good recovery tools, you get to gain empathy through seeing your peers journey.
As they say, “two heads are better than one,” and when you have a group of many people who are actively engaged in recovery efforts you’re going to get a lot of knowledge from them and gain the skills and techniques that you need to navigate your personal recovery successfully.
Here is what you can expect from our Live Become A Knight Group Coaching Program:
Becoming a Knight isn’t going to be sitting back and learning. This program is active and engaging and hands on. There are 6 distinct parts of the program outside of the application. You will learn about concepts and will be getting intuitive exercises to do alone and with your partner when ready.
By the end of the 10 weeks together, your biggest takeaways will be:
Understanding Pornography/Sex addiction as well as betrayal trauma
Being able to understand your partner’s boundaries and consequences
Having accountability in your life and gaining meaningful connections in your life
Understand the KEY factor that will help reconstruct your relationship/marriage when ready
Know the go-to coping skills if/when you feel tempted to use
Having a self-care plan and hobbies in place for difficult moments in recovery
Building a War Chest to battle this war against addiction
Building a Support Network
I was white knuckling through 2 years of relapses and not getting what I need from therapist or 12 step programs. Before SSR and The Knights. Since being in the program I have changed my communication greatly with my wife. I have change my emotions my routines my self awareness and my attitudes to name a few adjustments. I feel the coaches have challenged me when I need it and have supported me when I am making the correct choices. The coaches always have an answer to my questions. My partner has gained a sense of community from the warriors she also has tools and light at the end of the tunnel she was afraid that there never would be anything that worked and now she sees a chance to this will work. If you are considering joining I would tell you that you have eveeything to gain from joining your own self respect your ability to think for yourself your career your relationships, and you just might loose the addiction that is ruling your world. I wish this program existed 20 years ago.
How does the program work?
As soon as you are enrolled in the program, you will receive a welcome packet to help get the best results from the program and fully prepare you for the upcoming weeks.
FOR THE NEXT 10 weeks, YOU WILL RECEIVE:
Weekly Group Coaching sessions where you and others will receive group coaching with Savannah Esposito, Timothy Brown, and Chloe Sutherland, where we will address the various challenges and progress for that week. This is one of the most dynamic parts of the program where you get our undivided attention to help you guys move forward and overcome any obstacles. (Total of 10 Group Sessions)
Each person gets an individual session where you will have 1:1 coaching with Savannah Esposito, Timothy Brown, or Chloe Sutherland and address any personal obstacles that are occurring or discuss any issues you are nervous about addressing with your partner so we can figure out a way to bring that issue up. (Each Person Has 1 Individual Session)
Optional Support Partner (which we highly encourage!). In the group, if you find you are clicking with another member in the group, we encourage you to reach out and become each other’s support partner. This is one of the most magical aspects of the program, where you can truly create a bond with another addict in the trenches and get extra support and even friendship in this time of need.
BONUS SUPPORT EXCLUSIVE TO BEING A KNIGHT
Access to our Private Slack Channel, of people who are in the program where you can get support from others, share tips, get questions answered and get advice. Plus, even more help from Savannah, Tim, or Chloe by posting your question and tagging any/all of us so we will answer your question directly.
BONUS GAS-LIGHTING MODULE!
When you sign up you get the bonus module on gaslighting that we give each week at the end of the main module! Each week we go over the 10 ways gas-lighting occurs!
You have a total of up to 11 Sessions and extra support!
I was kinda just going through the motions trying to get sober before finding The Mod, but since I’ve been in the sense of self and commitment have reached heights I never thou g it possible for me.
The coaches give you just enough space to try and work out things but if trouble happens they are right there to help.
I’m finally getting some self esteem back that for years has been lacking. I have a new lease on life to stay in recovery and hopefully into a new person that’s so much better than the old one!
Here Is Just A Snippet Of What You’ll Get When You Join!
,MODULE 1: Addiction & Betrayal Trauma Education
1. Learning about addiction is one of the most important aspects of being able to put your reality back together. Once we teach you about addiction, you will begin to understand, predict, and even understand your dysfunctional behavior in an effective and healthy way so that you can change the addiction cycle. (Week 1)
2. Learning about Betrayal Trauma is also essential to recovery. When you learn what is happening, you will be able to understand your partner’s reactions, start building the skills of compassion, patience, and empathy towards your partner. (Week 2)
MODULE 3: Boundaries, Rules, & Consequences
1. This is one of the MOST important aspects of recovery that SO MANY get wrong. This is why you’re stuck on repeat, and when you master this, you will see a shift in your relationship.
2. You will be learning about what B&C are, why they are important, and what B&C are not. You will also be working towards respecting the B&C’s that your partner sets up. (Week 4)
MODULE 2: Fetish Cycles
1. In this Module you will learn about your individual “fingerprint” into addiction. You’ll learn the escalation and devolution of your addiction. You will understand the how of your addiction so you can identify your milestones in recovery.
This module will encapsulate exercises to identify your patterns, stop them, and have strong tools to make the changes to attain your recovery lifestyle! (Week 3)
MODULE 5: Micro-Trust
Trust is an ESSENTIAL part of recovery. Trust has been absolutely shattered and thus, you need to learn how trust is actually rebuilt. Many approach rebuilding trust in the wrong ways, with good intentions.
In this module you will be learning exactly how trust is rebuilt and what to look for and ask for in this journey to see whether your partner is really ready to rebuild! (Week 6)
MODULE 4: Accountability
You’re out of control when you’re in your addiction, and part of recovery is getting accountable. You are responsible for your choices and actions, and in this module we go over all the different ways accountability can be incorporated into your life. You get to create your accountability plan so that you no longer have to fear the addiction taking over.
Part of accountability is checking in with your Support Partner, but also doing the Daily Worksheets we provide you in this program. (Week 5)
MODULE 7: Self Care & Coping Skills
1. Now that you’re educated, getting stable, and developing strong friendships, we are going to be working on incorporating some amazing coping skills into your life before graduating this program! (Week 9)
2. After working on coping skills, we are going to be creating individualized Self-Care Plans for the rest of your recovery journey. These are not set in stone and can evolve as you evolve in recovery. This is one of the most important parts of the program as if you have coping skills and self-care in place you will be 100 times better off! (Week 10)
MODULE 6: Am I Enough
Addicts who have broken their partner’s hearts often are plagued with constant critical voices in their head, wondering if they’ll ever be enough for their partner.
You may wonder how you will ever repair the damage you’ve done, or wonder if your partner will ever forgive you and accept you. You feel as if you’ll never be enough for your partner with your history of addiction.
In this Module we work on rebuilding self-esteem and really working on accepting that you are NOT your addiction. (Week 7 & Week 8)
Congratulations! You’ve Graduated!
After finishing the program, you will have graduated from being an active addict to being a Knight! You will be getting some amazing graduation gifts sent your way as a sign of the amazing progress and transformation you’ve made!
Now, you’re probably wondering what the cost of The “Become a Knight” Live Group Coaching Program is…
Honestly, I want you to see this not as a cost, as cost implies a loss of something. I want you to look at this as an investment in yourself, as with investments you gain something, and in this program you will be gaining SO MUCH it’s unbelievable.
When you enter this program and graduate, you will have gained so much knowledge, and that alone will be a huge change! You also will be gaining life-long friendships! That’s right, you’re no longer alone in this hell. You have others who are there with you, growing, healing, and they will be your supporters and friends in this journey.
One of the amazing things you’ll gain is a sense of self-worth and knowing that you are so much more than you’re addiction. You will be able look at yourself in the mirror and not feel disgusted and ashamed, you’ll know your worth!
So, tell me, truly how much is that worth to you? If You Ask Me, It’s PRICELESS!
This program is only $997 and honestly it’s a steal. What you will learn and gain in this program is insurmountable and will change your life. I also know that not everyone has $997 to just drop at once, and that is why I offer payment plans to make this investment easier. So, if you need the payment plan option, it’s there! You can join today with just a payment of $397 with two following monthly payments of $397.
Our program is a game changer. You are not going to be stuck anymore, you will have personal power again, and be able to hold your ground with friends to stand by you. That’s pretty damn amazing if you ask me.
Before The Knights I was in SSR. And before that I was lost, confused, and barred in a mountain of lies. I had been addicted to pornography and masturbation for 23 years. It had lead me down a path that I had made many unhealthy choices. I had destroyed many relationships and was on the verge of destroying my current marriage. During these 23 years I had many other addictions that I had over come like drugs and alcohol. But porn and masturbation felt impossible to over come. No matter where I turned it was starting me in the face and pushing me around it.
Once in The Knights program I had learned many challenges I had to over come and tools to help me get there. It has been a REAL eye opener in to how badly this addiction affects every aspect of your mind and brain and really takes hold of you and won’t let go.
The biggest change to date is my relationship with my wife. I have an amazing relationship now and it is truly better then the day I meet her. It has been amazing. I am no longer explosive with my thoughts and reactions. And I have emotions and thoughts that I have never had before. It has gotten me back on track to my morals and dreams in life.
The coaches are the best. I have seen and been around many therapists and counselors in the past and none of them hold a candle to these coaches. They go out of there way it feels like to help everyone in the program. They are very intelligent people that know there stuff about this addiction. They have experience and knowledge of the brain disease. And guide you through every step.
My wife is in The Warriors and I thank god for it. It was her saving grace to life. It has changed her in many ways then I could have ever imagined. She is strong and determined now and has trust and safety with me now, which she had never had before. She has learned everything about me and my addiction and despite all of it The Warriors group helped her to love me.
If you are considering joining The Knights I’m telling you this, it is worth every penny. It will give you tools, guidance, strength, and will give you control over this addiction. As long as you commit to the program and give it your all it will change your life. I work a 50 hour week and no others that work more then me and you will have time as long as you are devoted to having a healthy life.
This program is a community of people that are in your shoes or have been in your shoes. Know ones shit is special, it is still shit. And NO one of any of use are here or have been here to judge you. You are in control of your destiny and The Knights will guide you to rise up and over power this disease’s.
Ready to Enroll or Have questions?
These are the most common questions people ask
How Can I Justify The Cost of the Program? What About Help For My Partner?
This program will change your life. Rather than repeating the same old patterns and being in a horrible relationship and state, you will be moving forward and will grow. Can you really afford to not invest? And as for your partner, we do have the Become A Warrior LIVE Group Coaching program for the betrayed as well, and as a special, we love it when both the betrayed and the addicted sign up for their individual programs together because it gives you guys just that much more of a chance of really making recovery stick, that we offer a couples special price of $1499. Now, again we do have payment plans for that option as well where you pay $550 to enroll with 2 monthly payments of $550.
We Have very busy schedules. My Partner’s job is demanding. How can we justify the Commitment?
I am going to be blunt, you cannot afford to waste anymore time NOT being in recovery. If you’re not in recovery, neither of you are healing and you’re staying stuck in a painful and unhealthy dynamic that will eventually end the relationship. If recovery and marriage are important to you, I assure you, you will find the time. It’s about what is truly your priority.
When can I sign up?
ENROLLMENT OPEN for next live round
Start Date: May 3rd
End Date: July 12th