“Become a Warrior” LIVE Group Coaching Program
If you are stuck in betrayal trauma this program is for you!
Being the partner of a masturbation, pornography, or sex addict is one of the biggest challenges one can go through. As a betrayed partner, you have lost your sense of self, your self-esteem, your sense of reality, self-worth, and your ability to trust – not only your partner, but the world and yourself.
I’ve been there. I was once a betrayed partner, lost in grief and shock. I became a warrior in my own journey in recovery when I joined a group of other betrayed partners and we named ourselves “The Warriors™” for our bravery, courage, and strength to not only stay and fight for our marriage, but to face the pain, heal, and move forward.
In this Live Group Coaching Program, you will find that you’re not alone. You will receive the knowledge, validation, support, and skills you need to move from being a traumatized partner to a strong warrior in life. You will not be labeled a co-dependent or co-addict here. At The Mod, we follow the Betrayal Trauma model. At The Mod, you have a safe haven where you can start your journey of recovery and graduate from this program as a Warrior.
You will finally be able to understand what is happening and HOW to move forward!
Major Benefits of being in become a warrior group Coaching program!
With betrayal trauma, often times you feel ashamed of what you’ve been through, your reactions, and how you act around your porn addicted partner.
In Group coaching, you gain accountability strategies from one another, by showing up and being honest and participating, and through making genuine connections. You start to understand that you’re not the only one going through this, having these reactions, and you get to learn new strategies and be accountable to implementing them.
Going from Isolation to community
When suffering from betrayal trauma, one of the side effects is isolation. No one understands what you’re going through, those you’ve opened up to have blamed and dismissed you, telling you that “all men watch pornography, get over it” or “you’re overreacting.” You start to distrust everyone and further isolate while suffering alone and feeling misunderstood.
When you get into group coaching, you are around people who are in the trenches just like you. You are not alone anymore and you realize that you’re not crazy, irrational, or being over sensitive because you’re not the only one going through this. You and so many others are experiencing the trauma that comes from intimate betrayal.
In group coaching you build genuine connection and friendships and can gain the peer support you need to keep your motivation going and keep yourself accountable to your goals.
Knowledge & Skills
In group coaching, you not only get the knowledge and skills of the expert who has been through it, but also you get the insights from your group peers. You get to see what does and does not work. You get to try different methods to figure out what works for you in your own recovery. You don’t have to waste weeks of being isolated trying over and over again with failed methods. You get the tried and true strategies to help recover.
You get to build upon each other’s knowledge, recommend good books, and recommend good recovery tools.
As they say, “two heads are better than one,” and when you have a group of many people who are actively engaged in recovery efforts, you’re going to get a lot of knowledge from them and gain the skills and techniques that you need to navigate your personal recovery successfully.
Here is what you can expect from our Live Become A Warrior Group Coaching Program:
Becoming a Warrior isn’t going to be sitting back and learning. This program is active and engaging and hands on. There are 6 distinct parts of the program outside of the application. You will learn about concepts and will be getting intuitive exercises to do alone and with your partner when ready.
By the end of the 10 weeks together, your biggest takeaways will be:
Understanding Pornography/Sex addiction as well as betrayal trauma
Being able to set and hold your boundaries and consequences
Having accountability in your life and gaining meaningful connections in your life
Understand the KEY factor that will help reconstruct your relationship/marriage when ready
Know that this addiction has NOTHING to do with you
Having a self-care plan and coping skills in place for rocky moments in recovery
Building a War Chest to battle this war against addiction
Building a Support Network
How does the program work?
As soon as you are enrolled in the program, you will receive a welcome packet to help get the best results from the program and fully prepare you for the upcoming weeks.
FOR THE NEXT 10 weeks, YOU WILL RECEIVE:
Weekly Group Coaching sessions where you and others will receive group coaching with Savannah Esposito, Timothy Brown, and Chloe Sutherland, where we will address the various challenges and progress for that week. This is one of the most dynamic parts of the program where you get our undivided attention to help you guys move forward and overcome any obstacles. (Total of 10 Group Sessions)
Two individual sessions where you will have 1:1 coaching with Savannah Esposito, Timothy Brown, and/or Chloe Sutherland and address any personal obstacles that are occurring or discuss any issues you are nervous about addressing with your partner so we can figure out a way to bring that issue up. (Each Person Has 2 Individual Sessions)
Optional Support Partner (which we highly encourage!). In the group, if you find you are clicking with another member in the group, we encourage you to reach out and become each other’s support partner. It’s much like an accountability partner. This is one of the most magical aspects of the program, where you can truly create a bond with another partner in the trenches and get extra support and even friendship in this time of need.
Access to our Private Facebook Community, of people who are in the program where you can get support from others, share tips, get questions answered and get advice. Plus, even more help from Savannah, Tim, or Chloe by posting your question and tagging any/all of us so we will answer your question directly.
You have a total of up to 12 Sessions and extra support!
Here Is Just A Snippet Of What You’ll Get When You Join!
MODULE 1: Addiction & Betrayal Trauma Education
1. Learning about addiction is one of the most important aspects of being able to put your reality back together. Once we teach you about addiction, you will begin to understand, predict, and even address your partner’s dysfunctional behavior in an effective and healthy way. (Week 1)
2. Learning about Betrayal Trauma is also essential to recovery. When you learn what is happening, you will be able to reduce the shame you’re feeling, and start building the skills of compassion, patience, and self-love back in your life. (Week 2)
MODULE 2: Boundaries, Rules, & Consequences
1. This is one of the MOST important aspects of recovery that SO MANY partners get wrong. This is why you’re stuck on repeat, and when you master this, you will see a shift in your relationship. (Week 3)
2. You will be practicing these skills one of your private sessions if you choose to, and learn how to be strong if you are challenged on the boundaries you’ve set. (Week 4)
MODULE 3: Accountability
You’re going through a host of emotions in a flash. You’re angry one second, crying the next, screaming the next, then completely shut down. Those are normal reactions to trauma, but in this module you will learn how to be accountable for your choices and your behaviors as well.
Part of accountability is checking in with your Support Partner, but also doing the Daily Worksheets we provide you in this program. (Week 5)
MODULE 4: Micro-Trust
Trust is an ESSENTIAL part of recovery. Trust has been absolutely shattered and thus, you need to learn how trust is actually rebuilt. Many approach rebuilding trust in the wrong ways, with good intentions.
In this module you will be learning exactly how trust is rebuilt and what to look for and ask for in this journey to see whether your partner is really ready to rebuild! (Week 6)
MODULE 5: Am I Enough
Betrayed partners often are plagued with constant critical voices in their head, wondering if they’ll ever be enough for their partner.
They wonder how they didn’t see it, why their efforts weren’t good enough to keep their partner with them and only them. They blame themselves no matter how hard they tried, no matter how many times they compromised their values and their own self-respect during sex, to try to “win” their partner back from pornography.
In this Module we work on rebuilding self-esteem and really working on accepting that this addiction is NOT about you. (Week 7 & Week 8)
MODULE 6: Self Care & Coping Skills
1. Now that you’re educated, getting stable, and developing strong friendships, we are going to be working on incorporating some amazing coping skills into your life before graduating this program! (Week 9)
2. After working on coping skills, we are going to be creating individualized Self-Care Plans for the rest of your recovery journey. These are not set in stone and can evolve as you evolve in recovery. This is one of the most important parts of the program as if you have coping skills and self-care in place you will be 100 times better off no matter what your partner chooses to do! (Week 10)
Congratulations! You’ve Graduated!
After finishing the program, you will have graduated from being a betrayed partner to a Warrior! You will be getting some amazing graduation gifts sent your way as a sign of the amazing progress and transformation you’ve made!
Now, you’re probably wondering what the cost of The “Become a Warrior” Live Group Coaching Program is…
Honestly, I want you to see this not as a cost, as cost implies a loss of something. I want you to look at this as an investment in yourself, as with investments you gain something, and in this program you will be gaining SO MUCH it’s unbelievable.
When you enter this program and graduate, you will have gained so much knowledge, and that alone will be a huge change! You also will be gaining life-long friendships! That’s right, you’re no longer alone in this hell. You have others who are there with you, growing, healing, and they will be your supporters and friends in this journey.
One of the amazing things you’ll gain is a sense of self-worth and knowing that boundaries are healthy. You will be able to stand up for yourself and know you ARE WORTHY OF RESPECT AND LOVE.
So, tell me, truly how much is that worth to you? If You Ask Me, It’s PRICELESS!
This program is only $997 and honestly it’s a steal. What you will learn and gain in this program is insurmountable and will change your life. I also know that not everyone has $997 to just drop at once, and that is why I offer payment plans to make this investment easier. So, if you need the payment plan option, it’s there! You can join today with just a payment of $397 with two following monthly payments of $397.
Our program is a game changer. You are not going to be stuck anymore, you will have personal power again, and be able to hold your ground with friends to stand by you. That’s pretty damn amazing if you ask me.
Ready to Enroll or Have questions?
These are the most common questions people ask
How Can I Justify The Cost of the Program? What About Help For My Partner?
This program will change you life. Rather than repeating the same old patterns and being in a horrible relationship and state, you will be moving forward and will grow. Can you really afford to not invest? And as for your partner, we do have a Live Group Coaching program for the addicts as well, and as a special, we love it when both the betrayed and the addicted sign up for their individual programs together because it gives you guys just that much more of a chance of really making recovery stick, that we offer a couples special price of $1499. Now, again we do have payment plans for that option as well where you pay $550 to enroll with 2 monthly payments of $550.
If you and your partner want the Couples Special email email@example.com subject title “Couples Special” and I’ll send you guys the link to sign up that way!
We Have very busy schedules. My Partner’s job is demanding. How can we justify the Commitment?
I am going to be blunt, you cannot afford to waste anymore time NOT being in recovery. If you’re not in recovery, neither of you are healing and you’re staying stuck in a painful and unhealthy dynamic that will eventually end the relationship. If recovery and marriage are important to you, I assure you, you will find the time. It’s about what is truly your priority.
When can I sign up?
We run this live program 3 times per year.
Sign up dates:
– September 23rd – November 30th 2019 Currently Enrolling
– February 3rd – April 12th 2020
– May 11th – July 13th 2020
– September 21st – November 29th 2020
How do I pay?
You pay through the Apply Now button, and it will bring you to the page to pay and fill out the application.
When I hit “Apply Now,” I see there is an application, why do you need that?
Our applications give us the information we need to best help you. The applications are confidential and only used to help us help you. This application also helps us prepare for your individual sessions in this program.