by Savvy Esposito | Sep 16, 2022 | Savvy Answers, Sex & Relationships, Sex Addiction & Betrayal Trauma
From a betrayed partner with a SSA + IA partner Q: How do you start to get over the feeling of “not having been enough”? Savvy Answers: To answer your question, I want to say you’re asking the wrong question. The reality is you are more than enough. However,...
by Savvy Esposito | Sep 16, 2022 | Savvy Answers, Sex & Relationships, Sex Addiction & Betrayal Trauma
From a betrayed partner with a SSA + IA partner Q: Once trust has been broken so completely, how is it possible to stay together? Savvy Answers: If you are in the beginning stages of recovery (0-6 months post discovery) and you have not gotten any professional help,...
by Savvy Esposito | Sep 8, 2022 | Savvy Answers, Sex & Relationships, Sex Addiction & Betrayal Trauma
From a Betrayed partner with an SSA spouse: Q: My husband of 12 years whom is addicted to Porn told me today that he would be fine (no issues) if I were to talk online to guys, have cyber sex you name it. As long as we don’t ever meet up in person. How am I supposed...
by Savvy Esposito | Sep 8, 2022 | Savvy Answers, Sex & Relationships
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: How can you figure out where your partner enjoys being touched, kissed, and how they like to be touched and kissed? The Savvy Answer: There are a couple of ways to...
by Savvy Esposito | Sep 8, 2022 | Savvy Answers, Sex & Relationships
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: What should a partner be mindful of when addressing things with their partner (whether it’s day to day aspects or negotiating or tough topics)? The Savvy Answer: Being...
by Savvy Esposito | Sep 8, 2022 | Savvy Answers, Sex & Relationships, Sex Addiction & Betrayal Trauma
From a Betrayed partner with an SSA spouse: Q: As an LCPC I am very familiar with addiction. I have always seen a difference between ‘substance use addiction’ and others (gambling, video games sex porn). The biggest struggle I find I have is that I...
