Relationship & Recovery Coaches, Consultants & Peer Mentors at The Modern Mr. and Mrs. LLC

Savannah Esposito, B.A. Forensic Psychology

Savannah Esposito, B.A. Forensic Psychology

CEO | Nationally Certified Life, Recovery, & Relationship Coach

When I was younger I loved understanding people’s behaviors, their motives, why they do what they do. I quickly became the “go-to” friend for relationships, so it wasn’t a stretch when I went off and got my bachelors in forensic psychology at John Jay College of Criminal Justice.

Through my vast experience, natural skill, and knowledge I knew I had a calling to help people. I knew that my dedication, experience, and education allowed me to help others in a unique way. After graduating and getting my Bachelors, I continued my education and got Nationally Certified in Life, Recovery, and Relationship coaching.

I am one of the teachers and creators of the Nationally Certified Sex Addiction Coach Certification (NCSAC) program at The Addictions Academy, and I am currently in the middle of my AASAT trainings in Sex Addiction, Partner’s Recovery, and Intimacy Anorexia. 

I work with those struggling from SSA™ and betrayal trauma because of my passion, education, and also because my husband and I lived through it and made it to the other side, when not many truly make it to The Recovery Lifestyle.

I’ve seen and experienced the devastation from deception, betrayal, lack of communication, and lack of intimacy. Now, I uses those techniques, skills, and creative exercises I used to save my own marriage with other couples.

I know what it takes to save a marriage on the rocks.

I took all my experiences, knowledge of addiction, psychology, and neuroscience, and applied it to my own relationship when I discovered my husband’s porn addiction. My husband is over 4.5 years clean, and we’ve reconstructed a new marriage. We made it, and so can you!

See Savannah’s articles here!

Chloe Sutherland, A.S. Physiology

Chloe Sutherland, A.S. Physiology

Nationally Certified Life & Recovery Coach, specializing in Sex

My interest in sex started when I was 15 or 16, but who’s doesn’t? The difference I noticed for me verse other people was I didn’t just want to know ‘how to do it’, I wanted to know everything about it. The anthropology of sex, of fetishes, of sexual education and sexual intimacy.

I have quested to go everywhere and gain the knowledge of the primal evolution of sex. I’ve been behind the scenes of marketing and directly in front lines helping with people who struggle with sexual intimacy and betrayal trauma. Sex never came with a manual. It was supposed to be the most natural act on earth.

Many things can get in the way of this. Addiction to masturbation, sex or porn is just having sex with yourself. It negates the point of intimately connecting to a person. I’ll be frank, good sex isn’t about frequency… It’s about the freedom. Can you be yourself? Do you accept them? I feel like relationships ask something specific of each individual couple. Every part of your past helps to mold the footprints you walk through foreplay to becoming truly connected. 

Naked isn’t just being undressed. Intimacy isn’t just about sex. Many people get lost in complacency in their relationships. Trust, honesty and communication helps make commitment work. If nobody has integrity, then it’s hard to have accountability. Showing these traits to your partner is having respect for them. If you have these principles and your partner doesn’t – it’s hard to have great sex. If you have certain principles and your partner doesn’t, it’s hard to have a relationship.

While you can have sex without a relationship, you can’t really have a relationship without sex. I am interested in helping couples regain the “lost footing” in their challenges with this particular cornerstone because I feel that there is no greater frontier than making marriage work.

I am also one of the teachers and creators of the Nationally Certified Sex Addiction Coach Certification (NCSAC) program at The Addictions Academy.

See Chloe’s articles here!

Cliff Sutherland

Cliff Sutherland

Recovery Consultant + Peer Mentor

I’ve been a recovered SSA™ for over 6 years, and now I work with other SSA’s™ (Sexual Stimulation Addiction – pornography, masturbation and sex addiction) to help them overcome their struggles with this addiction and achieve The Recovery Lifestyle.

I, like other SSAs, struggled to find help as well as help myself through this difficult journey in the beginning. There are many pitfalls in getting into recovery, and it’s easy to compromise and fall back towards addiction.
I quit my chosen career path to better myself so I could futher my recovery and relationship. It uprooted my whole life, it was difficult and scary but looking back, it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made for my recovery.
I personally understand the struggle to let go of habit forming behaviors that we grow up with as SSA’s. My goal is to show people that there is a light at the end of this tunnel known as addiction.
I’m here to coach and guide you with my knowledge and experience. I’m a proud father who wants to break the bad chain of behavioral choices for my kids so they can have a chance to be emotionally connected, loving peoples.
Today, after being clean and recovered for so long, I’ve discovered I love fishing and being outdoors.
I’m here to help you move forward this journey of healing and rediscovery.
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