I remember what it felt like to be hesitant in the dating world. Knowing that you desire a relationship, but are stuck being single can feel embarrassing and make you question, “What’s wrong with me?”I understand what it’s like to feel hopeless when you know you can have the relationship you desire. Somehow, though, you’re still single.
You look around and you see couples, laughing, being romantic, and happy. You ask yourself, “why can’t I get that?”
There are two important factors here: You and “Hang-Ups.”
That is always where I start when I want to make sure my relationship is at it’s best. Realizing that there everyone has things they need to work through to achieve what they desire. You control you. If you are dedicated to improving and becoming self-aware, you will be able to date with confidence.
Realizing that you have the power to change your life is amazing. You truly do have the power in your hands. You can wake up and make the decision to be better, both personally and relationally. You can go out there and feel confident in knowing the type of person you’re looking for. The time is now to take the action in your life to find and create lasting healthy and connected relationships.
The Relationship Ready Coaching Program at The Modern Mr. and Mrs. LLC
Note: Spots are limited! Savannah is taking up to 12 clients for the singles from January-December 2019.
This program is for singles to gain the foundations of having a healthy connected relationship and addresses their personal issues that might be keeping them from getting the relationship they desire. This program follows the outline of the Relationship Reboot Program in terms of addressing the foundations of communication, connection, trust, fears, and sexual intimacy. But in the singles program, we also focus on getting the person to be aware of their own patterns, behaviors, and what they truly are looking for in a relationship and the type of partner they are and are not looking for. This way they don’t settle into an unhealthy relationship and can break any unhealthy patterns.
Length of Program: Approximately 6-8 weeks. Some individuals will move through the program quicker, and some will move slower. Every person has their own pace, and that’s okay!
Calls: 60-minute calls each week (6-8 calls total!).
Between calls support: In this program, I will be available for you to contact me throughout the week as well. Text (preferred) or email support will be available. A 30-minute call midweek will be available if there is something you’re really struggling with.
Homework: This program will have daily check-in sheets that you will do from day one. These check-in sheets help with all the things we will cover in the program. There will be educational sheets, journaling exercises, creative out of the box exercises, and individual homework as well. Plus you get The Mod ebooks included in this program (a $70 value!).
By the end of this program: You will be able to have the skills necessary to have a deeply connected, healthy, and intimate relationship. You will gain self-awareness, the ability to be vulnerable, know how to argue respectfully, understand yourself on a deeper level, be able to communicate more openly and honestly (lessening arguments), and finally, you will be connected to your own sexuality, be able to have a satisfying sex life, and never settle for less than you deserve.
Price: One Time Payment of $2000 Upfront OR Payment plan with 3 installments of $700
Familyof Origin Sheet
Relationship History Sheet
Personality/Personal Values Questionnaire Sheet
Relationship Ideas Evaluation
Identify fears concerning intimacy
Identify fears about your partner
Challenging those fears
Identify your love language*
Identify your attachment styles
Identify communication styles/patterns
Exercises that complement the different things we will be addressing
Coming together in the end with those exercises, sharing, and implementing new skills and patterns
Educate on Communication strategies/techniques
Learn each other’s default lens/perspectives
Learning how to disagree respectfully
Learning how to have effective arguments rather than destructive ones
Learning listening skills and empathy
Learning the ability to compromise
Identify old patterns, and see new communication patterns you can implement with all the education, skills, and knowledge you’ve acquired
Start taking risks with communication with the new skills
Identify how you learned about sex and if you have any “hang-ups” or shame surrounding sex or any sexual acts or your own sexuality
Identify your natural sex drive and desire
Exercises will be done pertaining to desire, drive, and sexuality
Depending on the issues present, there will be some creative solutions to implement changing old negative sexual patterns and developing fun new ways to engage in sex
- Individualized Sessions
- These sessions will be focused on issues from the pre-work or through the first couple sessions that the person wants to address and work on.
This Program is for you if:
- You are single
- You are struggling to put yourself out there
- You have low confidence or fears that hold you back from dating/committing to relationships
- You end up with partners who are clearly not for you
- You are struggling with connecting to your sexuality
- You are not connecting on a deeper level with those around you
- You are committed to becoming the best version of yourself
This Program is not for you if:
- You don’t struggle with dating
- You’re in a relationship
- You’re not committed to becoming the best version of yourself
- You’re not struggling with connecting to your sexuality
- You don’t want to be in a relationship
- You’re currently active in addiction and not in recovery/do not want recovery
Testimonials from working with me at The Mod
“In the Relationship Ready Program, I entered feeling really frustrated with dating. Leaving this program I’ve felt optimistic going forward! This programs made me feel more confident in the dating world. I loved established accountability. I was able to ask someone out, joined dating apps, and overall feel more confident. I love that Savannah explains the science and research to back her methods.”Mandy Miller
“I have a background of being the victim of sexual abuse, and a history of pornography, masturbation, and orgasm that spans decades. I have been in therapy, sexual addiction treatment facilities, and many 12-Step Programs. Savannah Esposito is one of the most thoroughly knowledgeable SME (Subject Matter Experts) I have ever had the privilege to know. Her advice and words of wisdom is unsurpassed and unparalleled. I would highly recommend her as your relationship coach.”Steven
“My husband and I took this course together, and we loved how much closer it made us! We were able to understand each other’s behaviors and perspectives more than we ever have before, and we had some amazing conversations. In addition, I work as a counselor and case manager. I use information from this course to help my clients improve their relationships. Such an amazing experience, one I recommend to everyone no matter where you are in life.”Abigail Arner
Who Is Savannah Esposito?
Savannah Esposito has studied psychology for years, is married, has faced and overcome many struggles in her life. She has spent the past 6+ years researching relationships, psychology, neuroscience, addiction, and more. With her knowledge and experience, Savannah’s mission is to help others gain connection and intimacy in their relationships.
Savannah believes in the ability to overcome life’s challenges so much so that she is writing a book about her experience with her husband and his pornography addiction and how they are overcoming an addiction that tears couples apart. (If you want more info on the book, subscribe here!)
Frequently Asked Questions
How Are Sessions Held?
The 60-minute sessions are held over Skype. I hold my sessions on Skype with video because video enables a stronger connection.
What If I Need To Reschedule a Session?
You can reschedule. As long as you reschedule/cancel with 24 hours notice there is no issue. If you cancel/do not show up to session without 24 hours notice there is a no show/late cancellation fee of $50. No-shows are defined as not showing up/cannot reach you/late past 15 minutes of scheduled session. This fee can be paid off within 15 days. If the fee is not paid within 15 days of receiving the invoice, there will be a late payment fee of $15.
What If I Get Stuck?
If you get stuck on the homework, we can talk it out through text, or we can set up a mid-week 30 minute Skype call. If there is a question you really aren’t sure how to answer you can simply skip it and come back to it later as you have more time to reflect.
Is This Confidential?
Yes. Everything in this program remains confidential. Your information, notes from session, and homework all are on hard copies, locked away. Anything digital remains on an external hard-drive that is only plugged into the computer to transfer information and then is locked away as well. The only time confidentiality would be broken is if you disclosed thoughts of harming yourself or another person.
Can I Contact You Between Sessions?
Absolutely! Especially if you’re stuck on any of the homework or want to process something mid-week. You can text me, and we can set up a mid-week 30 minute Skype call if you need to talk something out!
How Does Payment Work? Are There Refunds?
Payment is either through PayPal or Square. You can choose to pay in full or choose the payment plan of paying $130 at each call if that makes more sense for you financially/is easier. Paying through the payment plan will be a little more than paying in full.
Refund policy can be found in the terms and conditions page.
Interested? Want a Discovery Call?
Make a discovery call to see if we are a good fit together! I’ve spent the past 6+ years helping those around me in their relational lives and helping them become the best versions of themselves and gaining the relationships they desire.
If you’re interested in the coaching package but have questions, set up a discovery call! This is a call where you can ask questions, gain insight into the package and what it entails in more detail, and get to know me a little more and see if we are a good fit.