Recovery Coaching for Compassionate Families Ready to Thrive in their recovery from sexual addiction and betrayal trauma

Private, steady recovery coaching — in writing, at your pace

The gut-crushing realization your partner isn’t who you thought they were.

The agony of realizing you crushed the person you love most.

The feeling that everything familiar has been lost.

I get it. It’s painful, scary, and overwhelming. The instinct is to pull the covers over your head and wait for life to feel safe again. That instinct makes sense. And you don’t have to go through it alone.

I’ve been exactly where you are. I’m a betrayed partner and a former addict. I’ve lived both sides of this coin. With my Bachelor’s in Forensic Psychology from John Jay College and a decade of recovery my husband and I built together (we hit ten years clean in June 2026), I turned what we learned into a step-by-step process my clients can follow to build their own recovery lifestyle. Not a rushed fix. Not a one-size-fits-all program. Something steady, private, and paced to fit real life.

I want you to find the right support faster than I did. Not by rushing. By having a clear path and a steady guide.

When you get the right support, real change becomes possible:

You can break free from the patterns that keep you stuck.

You can become more congruent – the person you are inside, and the person you show up as, can finally align.

You can learn to talk about the hard things without either of you shutting down or keeping score.

You can show up for your kids as someone they can trust.

You can be the partner you want to be, one step at a time.

My clients tell me that after doing my core foundational marriage connection exercise for just 30 days, they feel more connected than they have in years. They’re not stuck in black-or-white thinking or tallying who did what. They can see the nuance, live in the grey, and work as a team. When they show up and do the work, they change the trajectory of their lives and the legacy that ripples out to their kids and the generations after them.

There are a few ways to work with me: steady support in writing at your own pace or the all-in intensive for couples ready to go deep. Every engagement starts with a free Meet & Greet so we both know it’s the right fit.

 

Here’s how we can work together:

Email Coaching for Individuals & Couples

The spiral doesn’t wait for Tuesday afternoon.

It hits at midnight. Sunday morning when the house is quiet and the thoughts get loud. In the middle of a workday when you suddenly can’t breathe.

With email coaching, you don’t wait five days for an appointment. You send one message, and someone who’s walked this road writes back. Guidance, accountability, and a steady witness, one email away.

You move through recovery at your own pace, using the Phoenix Model as your map: a step-by-step path from stabilizing through rebuilding trust, repairing connection, and creating a recovery lifestyle you actually want to live.

How it works:

We start with foundations and build from there. You’re not just learning about addiction and betrayal trauma; you’re implementing the skills and moving from one stage of recovery to the next.

Each month, you have rolling email access to me. I reply consistently, within 1-2 business days. You can use that for guidance, support, questions, venting, or getting unstuck.

You also get monthly live touchpoints: four 20-minute live email exchanges.

These are scheduled when you want them. Extra 20-minute live email exchanges are available at $40 each if you need more that month.

What’s included?
– My full recovery vault: every program, training, and resource I’ve built over the past decade
– Rolling email access to me each month
– 4 20-minute live email exchanges

E2EE encrypted email supported and recommended, so your words stay yours

Built for real life. Busy careers. Kids. The weeks when being seen on a camera feels like one more impossible thing. The days you’re not ready to say it out loud yet, but you can write it.

How this fits alongside therapy:

Most of my clients have a therapist or have done therapy, and coaching is built to complement that work, not replace it. Therapy holds the healing; coaching is the day-to-day walk: the skills, the structure, the “I’m stuck right now, what do I do?” moments between sessions. If you’re ever in acute crisis, coaching isn’t the right immediate care. Most of my clients come to me because they’ve done the deeper therapeutic work or are already doing it.

Container:
Month-to-Month so that you’re able to go at recovery on your own pace – not a pre-determined program pace.

Pricing:
Individual: $300/month
Couples: $450/month
Extra 20-minute live email exchanges as needed: $40

Privacy first. Given what we’re working through together, I recommend and support E2EE encrypted email, so your words stay yours. Every engagement begins with a free Meet & Greet to make sure we’re the right fit.

 

Knights & Warriors Private Intensive
For those ready to go all in on recovery and make it their #1 priority.

This is the deep container. Daily check-ins in the morning or evening. 45-minute individual session each week. Three 2-hour couples sessions per month. It’s consistent presence and continuity.

For couples ready to go all in on rebuilding and reconnection.

$1,850/month

Real Transformations
“SSR gave me emotions back… communication outstanding. We’re building something real…. we tell each other everything now – the good and the bad.” – JD

“Before Warriors, I felt lost. Now? Hopeful, empowered, with peace I’ve never known… This program covers everything you need to fully recover & heal. I feel like a whole new person.” – Blake