Stop Attacking Her For Not Wanting Porn in Her Relationship
It’s so common in today’s society for men to attack people who aren't a fan of porn in their relationship. It’s why lots of women confide in their female friends if there’s a porn issue in their relationship. But these women are not expecting their female friends to...
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Let’s Talk About Your Penis
Ah, the penis. Every other person in the world has one. Yet, to many it's a mystery. They don't understand what it is or how it communicates to you - even if you have one! Many don't know anything about it other than to keep it clean. So let's talk about it. Anatomy...
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DON’T LET YOUR CHILD DROWN; Infant Swim Resource
When my children were younger, toddlers, I recall how much anxiety it caused me when we went to the lake, the ocean, or even the pool. I found myself watching not only my children, but others’ children too. My head was constantly moving back and forth, counting,...
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Why The 12 Steps Suck for Relational Recovery
We admitted we were powerless over sexaholism – that our lives had become unmanageable. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. Made a...
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The 14 Most Romantic & Intimate Movies of All Time
With 2020 well under way, I felt this would be a great time to provide for you some valuable lessons in what "genuine intimacy" really looks like. So without further ado, with Valentine's Day just a month away, here is the list. WARNING Some of these movies contain...
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Why White Knuckling Hurts More Than Just Staying an SSA & What You Should Do Instead
Lots of people have heard the term "White Knuckling," but do you know what it truly means? The definition is: someone who is avoiding recovery by doing minimal efforts to appear to others that they are achieving recovery, all the while, not truly learning and/or...
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The Year of 2019: Change
I cannot believe we are at the end of 2019. I am honestly SO happy to have made it through this year. It's been a very big, challening, and at times painful year. In this post I am going to be addressing me and my husband's journey in recovery, the goals we set, what...
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We’re Getting Married: Premarital Counciling
Actually, “counciling” isn’t even a word. But I utilize it to illustrate a point. I view much of what so-called premarital counseling is as nothing more than various miscellaneous and sundry council members with words of advice often fraught with (mis)information with...
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To the SSA: The Hard Pill to Swallow
I had been eyeing this car for a very long time. It solidified all of my hopes, dreams, and goals that truly represented and exemplified what I thought was pure success. It was coveted by my friends, colleagues, and acquaintances alike. It was, “Man, you are so damned...
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My Husband Quit His Job for His Recovery
Unpopular opinion - sometimes the only way to recover is to do something drastic. This does not necessarily mean that it's the only thing to do, or that you should do something different for the sake of doing different. Sometimes recovering from SSA (Sexual...
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