How To Function After Discovering Partner’s Porn Addiction
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA + IA Spouse Q: I have been neglecting my kids at some times. I don’t have the energy to play and laugh with them like I used to. I look a freaking mess. My house looks so messy as well. I perform at work just fine don’t even have...
The Best Course Of Action For A Betrayed Partner
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA + IA Spouse Q: What is your best advice for a woman who was betrayed and have so much to give. She is also a loving mother, Daughter and sister. I can’t let him take my joy and energy back. I can’t let him hurt me so much. Should I...
What Are Healthy Boundaries In Recovery?
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA + IA Spouse Q: What are the healthy boundaries? You mention something about not playing the divorce card yet. But I truly don’t know if I can be part of his recovery with ups and downs. It will hurt me so much to find out he watch...
How To Know You’ve Found The Right Therapist
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA + IA Spouse Q: How do I really know my husband has the right therapist and if it is actually going to help or prepare him to tackle his triggers and weakness. I’m afraid he is just shit playing this to play the victim as he has...
Will My Partner Be Sexually Addicted Even After Recovery?
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA + IA Spouse Q: On the article Addicted Brain for Dummies talks about how it is similar to the movie Beautiful Mind. I’m afraid his porn addiction will always be there even after recovery. It breaks my heart and I’m reconsidering if...
How To Communicate When You Disagree With Your Partner
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: What do you suggest couples do if they find themselves stuck in difficult arguments/quarrels? Savvy Answers: Firstly, couples will have times they disagree throughout...
How Couples Can Have Happy Lives
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: What advice would you give for couples to live a happy life? Savvy Answers: Given how broad this question is, I'll give a general answer. While happiness can be nice, it's...
Is It Normal To Reject Sex After Discovering Husband’s Infidelity?
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA Spouse: Q: A year after discovering my husbands addiction I have started to get extremely uncomfortable during sex and foreplay, to the point of asking him to stop. Is this normal? Savvy Answers: This question gives me reason to ask...
When Is It Time To Give Up On Your Marriage?
From a Betrayed Partner with an IA + SSA Spouse: Q: How do you know when is it time to give up on the marriage? Savvy Answers: When to give up on your marriage is one of the top questions I get asked. To begin the conversation you have to ask yourself these following...
How To Overcome Feeling “Not Enough” For Your Partner
From a betrayed partner with a SSA + IA partner Q: How do you start to get over the feeling of “not having been enough”? Savvy Answers: To answer your question, I want to say you're asking the wrong question. The reality is you are more than enough. However, that...
