Drunk Action In Recovery
Oftentimes the SSA™ (Sexual Stimulation Addict - masturbation, porn, and/or sex addict) will not fully commit and do a "fake out" in terms of recovery and can decieve their betrayed partner. In this video Chloe and I discuss the ways that the addicted partner can...
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5 Signs Your Struggling with Porn and/or Sex Addiction (and Didn’t Even Know It)
Porn addiction is a real addiction, and 1 in 3 guys between ages 15 & 50 are suffering porn induced erectile dysfunction because of it. Yes, porn can break your dick… so if you want to not break your dick, listen up! Here are signs porn could be a problem for you...
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Why Do People Lie?
Why do people lie? Why do we all lie? That should conjure up some interesting conversations. Let’s not pretend that we all don’t do it in one form or another to one extent or the other at one time or another when the right opportunity, or should we say situation,...
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What is Betrayal Trauma + How You Know You’re Experiencing It
Often partners who have had their partner have an affair or have a porn or sex addiction will end up with Betrayal Trauma - NOT Co-dependancy. Betrayal Trauma is a NORMAL reaction to betrayal. You’re NOT crazy! You’re 100% Valid in Your Feelings! You might be...
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The Dark Realities NO ONE Talks About When You Stay in Betrayal Trauma & Porn and Sex Addiction
This post may piss people off, and that’s 100% fine. In fact, we all should get pissed. We all should realize that what I am about to discuss needs to be brought to light. The Big Ugly Truth: Your Kids Know. Your kids are aware something isn’t right. They know that...
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Addiction, Isolation, & Coronavirus (COVID-19)
The first real wide sweeping pandemic to affect the world to this magnitude is proving to be a formidable health threat to overcome. We haven’t seen these kinds of fatalities from a pandemic in a hundred years since World War I. The only difference between a pandemic...
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Stop Attacking Her For Not Wanting Porn in Her Relationship
It’s so common in today’s society for men to attack people who aren't a fan of porn in their relationship. It’s why lots of women confide in their female friends if there’s a porn issue in their relationship. But these women are not expecting their female friends to...
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Let’s Talk About Your Penis
Ah, the penis. Every other person in the world has one. Yet, to many it's a mystery. They don't understand what it is or how it communicates to you - even if you have one! Many don't know anything about it other than to keep it clean. So let's talk about it. Anatomy...
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DON’T LET YOUR CHILD DROWN; Infant Swim Resource
When my children were younger, toddlers, I recall how much anxiety it caused me when we went to the lake, the ocean, or even the pool. I found myself watching not only my children, but others’ children too. My head was constantly moving back and forth, counting,...
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Why The 12 Steps Suck for Relational Recovery
We admitted we were powerless over sexaholism – that our lives had become unmanageable. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. Made a...
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