Black Friday Sale – 70% off … Code Inside!
This sale is limited to: 13 spots open for The Warriors (Warriors is $997, but it's 70% off! That's $299.10!) 13 spots open for The Knights (Knights is $997, but it's 70% off! That's $299.10!) 13 spots open for Couples Special Price (Couples Special is $1499, but it's...
read more
To the SSA: The Hard Pill to Swallow
I had been eyeing this car for a very long time. It solidified all of my hopes, dreams, and goals that truly represented and exemplified what I thought was pure success. It was coveted by my friends, colleagues, and acquaintances alike. It was, “Man, you are so damned...
read more
My Husband Quit His Job for His Recovery
Unpopular opinion - sometimes the only way to recover is to do something drastic. This does not necessarily mean that it's the only thing to do, or that you should do something different for the sake of doing different. Sometimes recovering from SSA (Sexual...
read more
My Husband Was a Voyeur
He was tired. My husband told me he was Tired. It was starting to get old though. You know that sort of tired where he won't touch you for days and you start to question yourself as a woman? You know, where you are going crazy because the work stress passes, and the...
read more
Know Your Worth as The Betrayed
Being able to stand up for yourself is huge when you've constantly been beaten down by lines like, "Its just porn, get over it." "I'm not cheating, fuck every guy needs release." "Maybe if you put out more, I wouldn't need porn." Those are classic lines from addicts...
read more
Recovery from SSA & BT: Relationship Reconstruction 101
At The Mod, we have couples coming from all over the place seeking help regarding their partner's SSA (Sexual Stimulation Addiction - Masturbation, Pornography, and/or Sex addiction) and their own Betrayal Trauma. Most couples make the mistake of thinking relationship...
read more
How to Fight Fair & Keep Your Relationship
When most people think of fighting, they think of a boxing ring with two heavyweight fighters in opposite corners coming out ready to swing. This can also happen in our relationships, where we are so invested in what we believe, we end up like those two boxers....
read more
Understanding the 11 Different Types of Intimacy (Including Sexual Intimacy)
Let me preface this by saying that there are 11 different types of Intimacy. 10 of which stand alone, but in and of themselves and their creation in the different intimacy pillars. Sexually Intimacy, takes 4 or more types of Intimacy to come into creation. Sex...
read more
5 Ways Porn Addicts Are Like Zombies
People LOVE zombies and zombie movies. This is just a fact. If they didn't then zombie TV shows wouldn't continue to stay on the air long after the plots run out. However, it's purely speculation that there will never be a zombie apocalypse. Not the kind everyone...
read more
The Holidays After Discovery Day
Once we get to Labor Day weekend, it often marks the end of Summer for us all. The day after, we begin to see signs of the upcoming holiday season as merchants rush to the starting line as if they can get a head start on seasonal revenues. After all, that is what the...
read more