How Couples Can Have Happy Lives
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: What advice would you give for couples to live a happy life? Savvy Answers: Given how broad this question is, I'll give a general answer. While happiness can be nice, it's...
Is It Normal To Reject Sex After Discovering Husband’s Infidelity?
From a Betrayed Partner with an SSA Spouse: Q: A year after discovering my husbands addiction I have started to get extremely uncomfortable during sex and foreplay, to the point of asking him to stop. Is this normal? Savvy Answers: This question gives me reason to ask...
When Is It Time To Give Up On Your Marriage?
From a Betrayed Partner with an IA + SSA Spouse: Q: How do you know when is it time to give up on the marriage? Savvy Answers: When to give up on your marriage is one of the top questions I get asked. To begin the conversation you have to ask yourself these following...
How To Overcome Feeling “Not Enough” For Your Partner
From a betrayed partner with a SSA + IA partner Q: How do you start to get over the feeling of “not having been enough”? Savvy Answers: To answer your question, I want to say you're asking the wrong question. The reality is you are more than enough. However, that...
How To Stay Together After Partner Has Broken Trust?
From a betrayed partner with a SSA + IA partner Q: Once trust has been broken so completely, how is it possible to stay together? Savvy Answers: If you are in the beginning stages of recovery (0-6 months post discovery) and you have not gotten any professional help,...
Husband’s Fine With Me Having Cyber Sex With Other Men
From a Betrayed partner with an SSA spouse: Q: My husband of 12 years whom is addicted to Porn told me today that he would be fine (no issues) if I were to talk online to guys, have cyber sex you name it. As long as we don’t ever meet up in person. How am I supposed...
How To Figure Out What Your Partner Likes Sexually
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: How can you figure out where your partner enjoys being touched, kissed, and how they like to be touched and kissed? The Savvy Answer: There are a couple of ways to...
How To Be A Mindful Partner
From a person not struggling with addiction, infidelity or betrayal in their relationship: Q: What should a partner be mindful of when addressing things with their partner (whether it's day to day aspects or negotiating or tough topics)? The Savvy Answer: Being a...
Understanding The Neuroscience of Porn Addiction
From a Betrayed partner with an SSA spouse: Q: As an LCPC I am very familiar with addiction. I have always seen a difference between 'substance use addiction' and others (gambling, video games sex porn). The biggest struggle I find I have is that I understand how...
4 Strategies To Enhance Your Connection With Your Partner
Q: How can couples make the best of their time together so that they enhance their connection each and every day? **This was a question submitted from someone who is not struggling with addiction, infidelity, or betrayal, and so my response is geared towards healthy...
