A unique recovery opportunity to get both invididual and group coaching in one!
Dear Betrayed Partner,
In the midst of discovering your partner’s addiction, it’s easy to forget that you have your own recovery – no matter whether you stay or leave.
During COVID, addicts have been relapsing right and left with all the stress and isolation, and you deserve to begin healing, like yesterday!
Do you feel isolated, alone, misunderstood and constantly anxious, wondering if your partner is truly in recovery and whether or not you’ll ever recover yourself?
Maybe…
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You’ve tried talking with your friends only for them to invalidate you, saying, “What’s the problem, it’s just porn!”
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You’ve found evidence and know what they are up to but your partner is in denial
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You’ve tried therapy only to hear, “porn addiction isn’t real. Let’s talk about your insecurities.”
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You’ve tried joining random facebook groups for support only to find that the environment is just as toxic as your relationship
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You’ve explained porn is cheating to you, and your partner says it’s not cheating
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You feel crazy every day thinking something is wrong with you
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You feel you’re not enough, no matter how many things you do to become the “perfect” partner
If so, you’re in the right place, and we are so grateful you’re here!
You are not alone in this. There are so many betrayed partners out there going through the exact same thing.
Often, betrayed partners end up making key mistakes in attempts to solve the problem of having a porn or sexually addicted spouse.
They often first go to a therapist – only for the therapist to call them co-dependent and enable the addict to keep using because “porn addiction doesn’t exist.”
When reaching out for therapy ends up being a fail (time and time again) you’re left feeling lost and even more hopeless and invalidated than before you began searching for help.
That is all horrific to experience on top of the trauma your porn and sexually addicted spouse has already inflicted.
At The Mod, we follow the Betrayal Trauma Model and you are 100% validated in your feelings and your reality.
Who Is The Recovery Haven For?
The The Recovery Haven is for betrayed partners of masturbation, pornography, and/or sex addicts that are ready to be safe, validated, supported, transform, take action, and begin their healing journey.
Need a safe supportive community? You’re exactly where you need to be!
You might be experiencing hopelessness, anger, frustration, shock, bitterness, and just want to start trusting again! If so, then This is for YOU!
In TRH you’ll be…
Ready to get asked the tough questions and get support in personal email coaching
Reflecting, sharing, and supporting a group of like-minded women
Gaining life-long friendships
Getting group coaching support through weekly Q&A sessions
Proactive in taking the action you need to get the results you have been dying for!
In TRH there will be a mix of content – live videos, pre-recorded videos, email communication, bi-weekly recovery lessons, and many recovery opportunities!
The transformation you achieve in The Recovery Haven…
The truth is: Recovery is a Daily Choice. It’s a choice that you make to stay healthy.
No matter how many articles or books you read about recovery, the truth is you need more. You aren’t going to be able to fully work your individual recovery without these key components:
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Accountability
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Community
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Professionals to guide you
Why are those 3 things key?
Because without the right community, betrayal trauma gets worse.
Being with other women who are going through this very thing helps validate your experiences, enable you to begin to trust other people, and to start forming life-long safe friendships.
Without accountability, betrayal trauma can be almost impossible to recover from. Accountability is key in recovery because it makes you hold yourself to a higher standard when you know you have to check-in with others. You are responsible for your daily choices and actions.
Without professionals who’ve been there, you’re bound to fall into the biggest pitfalls of recovery. At The Mod, Chloe and Savannah (& our husbands) have fallen into some of the biggest pitfalls that can stall recovery for years, and we teach our clients to AVOID those pitfalls and streamline recovery.
In The Recovery Haven, Savannah will be teaching, supporting, coaching, & guiding you from feeling…
– Lost
– Confused
– Hopeless
– Stuck
– Paralyzed with fear & uncertainty
– Denial
To becoming…
– Aware
– Confident
– Empowered
– Kick-Ass
– Excited
– Hopeful
– Clear in moving forward
You and other betrayed partners will be in The Recovery Haven Facebook group where you will have access to all that quarter’s content, the coaches, and to each other!
The Recovery Haven 2021 Schedule*
Quarter 1
January – Starting The New Year Off Right In Recovery (Recovery 101)
January Coaching Call with Savannah on Sunday January 3rd at 2pm Eastern
Weekly Q&A/Support Sessions with Savannah are every Saturday at 4pm Eastern
Live Q&A Session with Jak for Husbands TBA
BONUS How To Vet Your Help Training
February -The Foundations of Marital Recovery Success
February Coaching Call with Savannah on Sunday January 31st at 2pm Eastern
Weekly Q&A/Support Sessions with Savannah are every Saturday at 4pm Eastern
Live Q&A Session with Jak for Husbands TBA
March – Sex in The Varying Stages of Recovery
March Coaching Call with Savannah & Chloe on Saturday February 27th at 12pm Eastern
Weekly Q&A/Support Sessions with Savannah are every Saturday at 4pm Eastern
Live Q&A Session with Jak for Husbands TBA
Quarter 2
April – Navigating The Summer Months in Recovery
May – Boundaries in Recovery (with your partner, family, friends, and kids)
June – Coping Skills & Self-Esteem in Recovery
Quarter 3
July – How To Have An Effective Separation
August – Relapse Prevention Planning & Post-Relapse Care Planning
September – Romance in The Varying Stages of Recovery
Quarter 4
October – Navigating The Holidays In Recovery
November – How To Know When It’s Time To Separate vs. Divorce
December – Reclaiming Life After Addiction & Trauma
*The schedule and topics may be subject to change depending on what the group asks for. This is a service that has a collaborative approach to recovery where the group can request for topics to be added to the curriculum!
When joining The Recovery Haven, you sign up by the quarter (although we are sure you will love it so much and want to stay for more)!
In TRH you will have:
– Personal email coaching with Savannah Esposito so that you can get individualized support in building your personal recovery plan
– Weekly Group Q&A/Support Sessions with Savannah Esposito so that you will have weekly support to overcome any challenges that arise
– Bi-Weekly Recovery Letters & Recovery Opportunities so that you will be learning and implementing new skills
– Ask Jak (Savannah’s Husband) and Ask Chloe segments each month so that you can gain perspective and knowledge from those on the other side of recovery
– Live Session once per month with Jak to bring your husbands on the call so they can get their questions answered as well!
Your Coaches, Savannah Esposito & Chloe Sutherland
Your Kick-Ass Relationship & Recovery Coach here!
I run an intentional, intensive, high-end coaching practice with my co-coach Chloe that get clients results.
