At The Modern Mr. and Mrs. our mission is to help couples gain the techniques, tools, and skills they need so they can have healthy communication, a strong foundation of trust, a mutually fulfilling sex life, and a life free from addiction and trauma.
Whether you’re a couple struggling with trust, communication, and sexual intimacy or a couple battling porn addiction and betrayal trauma, we have created amazing programs, workshops, and support groups for you. We meet you where you are at and help you get to where you want to be.
Please take time and look over our services and see which one is the best fit for you!
Relationship & Recovery Coaching Programs
Relationship Evolution Program
This program is for couples that are struggling with trust, communication, intimacy, and their sex lives. They are at their wits end and unsure of how to create the relationship they desire.
This program gives couples the skills, through daily actions, step-by-step, learning the relationship skills to enhance and create the relationship they desire!
Recovery Revolution: Reclaim Love & Life Program
This program is for couples that are struggling from porn addiction and betrayal trauma and are seeking to work both individual and relational recoveries. Couples are absolutely lost in how to quit porn and heal from betrayal.
This program is a deep dive into all three recovery journey’s where the porn addict will learn the skills necessary to kick addiction’s ass, while the betrayed will learn skills to navigate betrayal trauma and learn to love themselves again, while both partners will learn what it takes to recover their relationship from this addiction and trauma.
Launching Early 2020
Group Recovery Coaching programs
If you are looking for support in your recovery, then you’re in the right place. Most addicts and partners of porn addicts have no where to go. The places they’ve looked for support have blamed them, calling them co-addicts or co-dependent while telling the addict that porn addiction doesn’t exist. In reality, the partners are traumatized and need understanding and the addicts need real recovery tools.
Often betrayed partners feel ashamed, alone, isolated, and at times crazy for their reactions. They are feeling worthless, unlovable, and that something must be wrong with them for their partner to prefer porn to them.
One of the main reasons porn addiction thrives is because of the secrecy and deep shame that addicts suffer from. They feel isolated, alone, and that no one would ever love or accept them if anyone knew what they’ve done in their addiction.
I am here to tell you that with our group coaching programs, you get a bunch of important aspects of recovery in one! You get accountability. You get support. You build genuine friendships. You gain understanding. You gain skills. You gain freedom of isolation. You get the support you need to navigate the challenges of recovery.
Free private Facebook Support Group For Betrayed Partners!
We at The Mod know how challenging it can be to start this journey of recovery. Feeling alone, lost, and absolutely confused, we know it’s hard to figure out the first step to get yourself back on your feet.
In this group there are tons of resources, you can join and meet other partner’s, and you can each learn from each other and help support one another in the beginning of your recovery journey. Me and the other coaches (Chloe & Tim) are in there contributing, replying to comments and posts. Monday-Friday there are organized posts ranging from check-ins to struggles to weekly wins!
Private Monthly Support Group for addicts!
We at The Mod take your recovery extremely seriously. We approach things differently than other companies and make sure your recovery is priority number 1.
We are well aware of how damaging social media is to a masturbation, porn, and/or sex addict. We know that most social media has anything ranging from triggers, to porn substitutes, to actual pornography. Most other groups out there are held on platforms that are problematic for addicts.
This is why we hold our group on Slack. Slack is a business platform, and thus is a safe place for anyone struggling from sexual stimulation addiction (umbrella term for anyone addicted to masturbation, porn, or sex) as it’s porn free.
- We also give the SSR Client a resource list (similar to the resources in The Betrayed) so that they can do a deep dive on their own time to continue to work recovery.
- We give the SSR Client exclusive daily check-in accountability sheets that I use with my clients so that they can monitor their own progress.
- We also will run live group calls once a month so that SSR Clients can get extra support around areas they are stuck in.
This group is for any addict who needs to get their foot in the door into recovery. They are lost, have no where to turn, but are ready to start learning and changing their life.
They don’t want to lose their job, marriage, or family, and are ready to start taking responsibility for their choices and life.
This group has a limit of 25 individuals. We need 3-5 to get this group started.
This group is a $20/month investment into their recovery.
Interested? Awesome! Please email us at firstname.lastname@example.org where we can give you further information and instruction!