At The Modern Mr. and Mrs. our mission is to help couples gain the techniques, tools, and skills they need so they can have healthy communication, a strong foundation of trust, a mutually fulfilling sex life, and a life free from addiction and trauma.
We walk you all the way from the beginning of recovery to the higher levels to help you create your Recovery Lifestyle.
We meet you where you are at and help you get to where you want to be through our tiered services.
In the beginning stages we have entry level services for those new to betrayal trauma and SSA™. Once you have the basic education, we designed symbiotic programs for the betrayed and SSA™ to take (individually or together) to nail down their individual recovery.
Once you’ve gotten your individual recovery under your belt, we have 1:1 couples programs that continue to build the individual recovery while doing a deep dive into the relationship reconstruction and recovery lifestyle.
Please take time and look over our services and see which one is the best fit for you for the stage of recovery you’re in!
For those not yet ready to join a program we do offer individual sessions as well as couples sessions.
For Those in the Beginning Stage of Recovery
Free private Facebook Support Group For Betrayed Partners!
We at The Mod know how challenging it can be to start this journey of recovery. Feeling alone, lost, and absolutely confused, we know it’s hard to figure out the first step to get yourself back on your feet.
In this group there are tons of resources, you can join and meet other partner’s, and you can each learn from each other and help support one another in the beginning of your recovery journey.
This is a private group, that follows the betrayal trauma model for partners of masturbation/porn/sex addicts.
This group is for those who are ACTIVE in recovery.
That means you actively want to be out of the situation you are currently in and looking to move forward and heal and recover and level up.
You can vent, share stories, make friends, and take steps forward here!
If you’re struggling with infidelity as well, you’re more than welcome to join.
Note: You MUST answer the 3 questions to be accepted into this group.
Me and Chloe are in there contributing, replying to comments and posts. Monday-Friday there are organized posts ranging from check-ins to struggles to weekly wins!
Take home program for betrayed partners!
First Step Into Recovery Take Home Program is for betrayed partners to gain momentum in the beginning of recovery.
In this program, betrayed partners will learn about what recovery really takes, the biggest pitfalls to avoid getting started, and leave empowered ready to take action and change their life!
Private Monthly Support Group for addicts!
We at The Mod take your recovery extremely seriously. We approach things differently than other companies and make sure your recovery is priority number 1.
We are well aware of how damaging social media is to a masturbation, porn, and/or sex addict. We know that most social media has anything ranging from triggers, to porn substitutes, to actual pornography. Most other groups out there are held on platforms that are problematic for addicts.
This is why we hold our group on Slack. Slack is a business platform, and thus is a safe place for anyone struggling from sexual stimulation addiction (umbrella term for anyone addicted to masturbation, porn, or sex) as it’s porn free.
- We also give the SSR Client a resource list (similar to the resources in The Betrayed) so that they can do a deep dive on their own time to continue to work recovery.
- We give the SSR Client exclusive daily check-in accountability sheets that I use with my clients so that they can monitor their own progress.
- We also will run live group calls once a month so that SSR Clients can get extra support around areas they are stuck in.
This group is for any addict who needs to get their foot in the door into recovery. They are lost, have no where to turn, but are ready to start learning and changing their life.
They don’t want to lose their job, marriage, or family, and are ready to start taking responsibility for their choices and life.
This group has a limit of 20 individuals. Limited spots left!
This group is just a $99/month investment into their recovery (which is just a mere $3.30/day!)
For Those Who Are Ready To Deep Dive Into Individual Recovery
BECOME A PRIVATE CLIENT
As a private client, we get to truly individualize the experience and journey of recovery. Each session is working towards the goals you want to achieve. This type of coaching is best for those who want support over the long-term.
Private clients often book an average of 4 sessions per month and will be a client anywhere from 3-9 months, unless they also do our group programs on top of private coaching or their goals are very specific and they’ve already been putting in the effort prior to becoming a private client.
We offer Individual Private Coaching and Couples Private Coaching. We at The Mod believe it’s important to do individual work before couples work. How can you each build and strengthen a marriage when you each are stuck in your own experiences?
For those who do want Individual Coaching and have been working Individual coaching, starting to have couples sessions down the line is a great option and what many people do once they’ve worked through their own personal blocks to connection.
We at The Mod do offer a sliding scale for those who are low-income and need the financial assistance. There are a limited number of spots and clients we can take, so please don’t hesitate to apply as soon as possible if you need the sliding scale.
live Group Recovery programs
If you are looking for support in your recovery, then you’re in the right place. Most addicts and partners of SSA’s™ have no where to go. The places they’ve looked for support have blamed them, calling them co-addicts or co-dependent while telling the addict that porn addiction doesn’t exist. In reality, the partners are traumatized and need understanding and the addicts need real recovery tools.
Often betrayed partners feel ashamed, alone, isolated, and at times crazy for their reactions. They might be feeling worthless, unlovable, and that something must be wrong with them for their partner to prefer porn to them.
One of the main reasons porn addiction thrives is because of the secrecy and deep shame that addicts suffer from. They feel isolated, alone, and that no one would ever love or accept them if anyone knew what they’ve done in their addiction.
Our live group coaching programs, are INSANE! You get accountability. You get support. You build genuine friendships. You gain understanding. You gain skills. You gain freedom of isolation. You get the support you need to navigate the challenges of recovery.
By the end of these programs you will not be the same person you were coming in because you did the work on your individual recovery.
As the betrayed, you will stand in your own strength and have you self-worth again.
As the addict, you will understand your addiction and know that you are NOT your addiction; you’re so much more!
Programs are run 2 times per year!!! So there’s only a limited chance to get in.
For Those Who Already Have Worked Individual Recovery and Are Ready To Deep Dive into Relationship Reconstruction & The Recovery Lifestyle
Recovery Revolution: Reclaim Love & Life Program
This 6-month program is for Warrior and Knight graduates and is the final step for couples that are struggling from SSA™ and betrayal trauma. This program gives the couple The Recovery Lifestyle. This private couples program is an in-depth recovery program that focuses on reconstructing a new and healthy marriage now that both have solidified individual recovery.
This program is for the couples who have already invested in their recoveries, done the ground work, and are ready to level up in love and life!
Open for Applications (only 2 spots are open)
Please email firstname.lastname@example.org for more information