Our Services

At The Modern Mr. and Mrs. our mission is to help married couples gain the techniques, tools, and skills they need so they can have healthy communication, a strong foundation of trust, a mutually fulfilling sex life, and a life free from addiction and trauma. 

We walk you all the way from the early stages of recovery to the higher levels to help you create your Personal Recovery Lifestyle.

We meet you where you are at and help you get to where you want to be through our private coaching services.

Please explore your recovery options to see which one is the best fit for you, your family, and for the stage of recovery you’re in!


For those in the very beginning stage of recovery

(i.e 0-3 Months Post Discovery/Disclosure Day)

Please find a qualified therapist.

Our top reccomendation to start your recovery journey right is to find an AASAT certified therapist

If it’s possible for you to travel, Doug Weiss at Heart To Heart counseling offers intensives where you can get Theraputic Disclosures done.

If you cannot find an AASAT Certified Therapist then our second recommendation would be to find a CSAT or CMAT (if you have multiple addictions).

Couples therapy is HARMFUL in the beginning.

PLEASE do individual therapy first.

If you’re struggling to begin recovery join our Free Facebook Group The Betrayed’s Haven at the very least so you have a safe place to get support!

The Betrayed’s Haven Free Facebook Community!

In this group there are tons of resources, you can join and meet other partner’s, and you can each learn from each other and help support one another in the beginning of your recovery journey. 

This is a private group, that follows the betrayal trauma model for partners of masturbation/porn/sex addicts. This group is for those who are ACTIVE in recovery.

You actively want to be out of the situation you are currently in and looking to move forward and heal and recover and level up.

You can vent, share stories, make friends, and take steps forward here!

Note: You must answer the 3 questions to be accepted into this group.


Me and Chloe are in there contributing, replying to comments and posts. 


Messenger Coaching

In Messenger Coaching we coach you through premium.chat where we explore various topics that you want to address in your marriage and/or recovery.

This an ideal coaching option for someone who is still getting familiar with The Mod, yet wants to move beyong The Betrayed’s Haven, wanting to see how we work, coach, and support our clients, and get some real direction and clarity to move forward.

Messenger coaching is effective, efficient,  and results oriented. In each session you will go from feeling lost to confident in the next step towards your goals!

Sessions are as long as you want them to be!

If you need a really quick session to address one thing and it takes 3 minutes, awesome!

If you need a more in depth session, you can have one for up to 60 minutes to dive deep!

The goals & possibilites are endless, and they all come from you!

We have 2 options for messenger coaching: Pre & Post Marital Coaching and Marital & Recovery Coaching.


For couples that are in a committed long-term relationship, or engaged, or have been married under 7 years that are struggling to have the connected, romantic, intimate, and passionate relationship they desire!

 Coaching with Savannah Esposito

 Rate: $4.77/minute


For couples struggling from the fallout of sexual addiction, intimacy anorexia, and/or betrayal trauma.

 Coaching with Savannah Esposito or Chloe Sutherland

 Rate: $3.35/minute



For those who are ready to commit to individual + marital recovery

You’ve most likely done therapy for a couple months, you’ve maybe done other types of coaching, but nothing is working the way you want it to. Other professionals don’t understand the dynamics of what is really going on and you’re stuck.

Knights & Warriors


Our signature 6 month program for married couples to work their individual recovery in tandem while weaving in the foundations to save their marriage! This is for the married couple that’s ready to move heaven and earth to save themselves, their marriage, and their family!


For those who are ready to build on their individual goals, marital goals, or both

You’re most likely a KW alumni or other alumni client of ours and are ready to take your life, marriage, and/or recovery to the next level!

Private Coaching (Pre & Post Marital + Marital & Recovery)


In private coaching you can choose what you want to focus on as you level up!

We’ve either…..

Made huge strides in Messenger coaching for the Pre & Post Marital foundations and you’re ready to level your relationship/marriage to where you’re friends are all dying to know the secrets of your relational/marital success! #MarriageGoals


As a KW grad, you’ve already kicked ass at boundaries, you own your side of the lane and don’t blame others for your choices, and you and your marriage are on stable ground! The days of fighting over hidden porn and continued lying are so in the past! The new arguments are the normal (healthy) couple arguments of leaving socks on the floor or scheduling issues! #healthycoupleproblems

In private coaching we work on really diving deep into fleshing out your newfound Recovery Lifestyle!

Together we collaborate and design your coaching based on what your unique personal and marital goals are, and we support you each step of the way! 

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